I think it’s trashy to call a mom feeding her kid trashy, but that’s just me.
The breweries have cultivated the scene of bringing your kids along to play while mom and dad drink. Many of them have nice outdoor areas with jungle gyms or other games for the kids. It’s become an alternative place for adults to hang with kids in tow, because bringing kids to bar is not really going to work out. Brining your kids to a small indoor brewery space isn’t going to work out either IMO, it needs to be spacious enough for it to work.
And of course allowing kids does not excuse shitty parenting or lack of parenting, which I’m sure we can all agree is not acceptable anywhere. I agree with the limitations in the above post and others, because as a responsible parent the last thing you want to do is be a nuisance to others around you. And all of the things listed seem to fall under nuisance behavior.
Readington has a policy where there are no kids allowed in the winter months when the outdoor areas are unusable. I do not disagree.