James Pearl Thinks Blogging is Dead

But for reals, I made an effort to be unplugged last week on vacation.
There is something to be said for it, and it doesn't require a special trip to do it. Take the opportunity given you right now to tabula rasa it.
Like an elimination diet, only reintroduce what is necessary.


^^Slows things down, eh?^^

Earlier in the year I made some changes- No phone when I go out to lunch or dinner, cut out social media and no more reading news on my phone. I buy a newspaper every morning and it feels great to read yesterday's news. Technology is awesome but it does have a real down side of speeding things up. I can truly appreciate the "now" more than before, buck the desocializing feature my phone imposes on me and I'm alright being alone in my head. Basically, I have a better concept of time.

The first solo lunch I was uncomfortable- it was a real moment of intuition for me.
 
The final day in our journey starts in the religious house with a cross lit up outside, me reading & writing in the morning before everyone woke up for the day. Even though the house is kind of overloaded with bric-a-brac (wow, I never thought I would use that in my writing, like ever) it's so much better to wake up and have a kitchen and living room than having to tiptoe around a hotel room trying not to make too much noise. The place was $97 after all the fees & taxes, and was 5 miles from downtown East Burke.

Wait, sorry. There is no difference between "downtown East Burke" and just plain old East Burke. Anyway, $97 is a great price on this place. But man, if this heat keeps up we'll need to travel to Vermont with our own AC next year.

We were up and out of the house by 10:00 and on the trails shortly after that. First up was the bike shop and an espresso, which was excellent:

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We all stayed together today. What a HUGE F*ING DAY in the lore of family bike riding. Here is what we did, @rottin' style (which is my homage, not me making fun, you know I love this stuff):

- skills park near the shop up top
- Bemis
- Tody's Tour
- Eager Beaver
- River Run
- Hogback
- Sidewinder (this was just me & Zac)
- West Bench
- Piggyback
- Hogback
- Old Webs
- The little trail behind the church and up the road to the shop
- Bill McGill
- Vast
- Pines (note, I talked Zac through that rocky outcropping right before that last 20 seconds of awesome)
- River Run
- Kitchel

+ After Sidewinder, he was just blown away at the awesome. He practically RAN up West Bench trying to get back up top.
+ At the start of Pines he said "remind me again why this is your favorite trail" and at the end he said "I am thinking about going back up and doing it again"
+ At the end of Kitchel, his mind was just blown

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Ok so this was a watershed/historical weekend for Zac, to be sure. But this was also a massive step for Simon. He hung in for the whole ride today and if we hadn't stopped him, he would likely have obliterated himself going down Sidewinder. Otherwise, he did really well. He can't ride everything just yet. But he incredibly well and they both almost lasted 2 hours on the bike today.

At the end of the ride they went to town and I went back to the shop to get the car. I rode downtown to find that the ice cream shop was closed, much to the dismay of the audience in attendance today.

We got dressed and headed to town for a quick lunch at the diner, then got in the car and started the long, 6 hour drive home. Every time I leave this place it makes me sad, because the riding here is amazing and the memories here are just so very good. Today added to that, and today was harder to leave than ever because I wanted to stay another 3 days. As we drove home through Vermont, I just enjoyed the vibe that the state gives you. And it's sad in a way to see it go, to see the mountains slowly get smaller and smaller then the "Welcome to New York" sign hits you and the pavement on the street - and I swear I am not making this up - goes from smooth to total shit. It's a bummer to lose the Green Mountains every time we leave. Maybe we'll be back for ski season, something I am more willing than ever to embrace this winter.

Ok, so nostalgia aside, other than a stop for ice cream on route 7 and a gas stop, we blasted through the full drive after eating lunch. We pulled in at almost exactly 9:00. The kids have 1 more day off school then they go back Thursday. Tomorrow I get my tooth yanked. My mom dropped off a phone for me to try and put my sim card in for the time being. And work awaits us both. But for a few more hours, we're still on vacation and the summer still hangs up, just barely.

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I love Kingdom Trails. No matter how many times I come here, I absolutely love it. It's just an amazing trail system and I wish it were half as far away. Having said that, even after the 6 hour drive home I am still stoked about today's ride. What a great trip up there, with a great day to end with. On top of that, this has been a great ending to a really awesome summer. I managed to mountain bike 5 of the 6 days we were away and all 5 of those were on actual trails. In all, I probably did 7 hours of riding on dirt this trip. All of that was on one of the best trail systems in Vermont and one of the best trail systems in Quebec.

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@pooriggy - I ask myself this question. Why do I have Reddit, Facebook, and Instagram on my phone? What value do any of these serve? I actually like IG the best of them all as it is pretty pure in relation to the rest of them. That's a 50 minute podcast, so it may take a while to find the time to listen. I've got it opened in a new tab and will try to play it this week.

@jmanic - I can get my iMessages on my laptop, which has been sufficient for me these past few days. No texts, so if anyone has been SMS'ing me, I won't get it for a bit still. I do agree with the world that the Internet is pretty useful. I think we all end up having to come to terms with it on our own. Like I feel like I need to be able to figure out how to have the phone if I want to use the Kindle then when I'm done, just put it down. As opposed to stopping between chapters to check email, texts, blah blah blah.

I admit I have no idea how to do this. I am not going to say "this is how it should work" because I have no f'ing clue. This is a WIP and in 2 weeks I will likely have crashed and burned and my side writing project will be totally destroyed as I snort Reddit bytes by the kilo.

Norm sleep now.
 
As an experiment earlier this summer, I deleted the Facebook and Instagram apps from my phone for the better part of a month. I found myself opening them from muscle memory every spare moment that wasn't filled by something else. Man, was that interesting. They've since been reinstalled, but I don't find myself reaching for them in the same way. I now try to be conscious when I grab my phone of: "Okay, why is this in my hand and what do I intend to do with it?"

The specific purpose is allowed to be IG or FB or WSJ whatever if I'm sitting on the toilet, or I've given myself 5 minutes in between large tasks. Most of the time, however, I try to have a focus; I've found that I put the phone down when I'm done looking at/finding/doing what I need to and then I feel better not spiraling into some social media wasteland and seeing an hour of my life sublimate into a gas of memes.

We've also been having issues with quality and duration of sleep in our house. One thing we've loosely instituted to try and help with this is a "no-screen" policy after 9/9:30. How closely that gets stuck to depends on the day and what needs to get done, but we've been pretty good about it so far (about 2 weeks). We've replaced the phones with books, which we have both really liked, after a number of years of limited reading outside of work/school.

I think it's very much a case of finding what works for you specifically. The issue lies in allowed flexibility for me - having some sort of system that adapts these "rules" to when I need to flip back and forth between texts or emails for a specific situation, stay up late working on something for work or grad school, etc, while not allowing it to be a slippery slope on the way to losing all electronic discipline. I am a CHRONIC task-switcher and can easily defeat myself this way.

Staying tuned for the byte sized tips and tricks.
 
this winter. I also really want to x-country ski but this is a real hard investment in NJ. I know you'll argue that you can go lots of places but it's hard right now to drive 2 hours to Mohunk on any sort of routine basis to make the investment worth it.
I would suggest renting and penciling in two dates this winter to xc ski. The places I'm suggesting are groomed centers, because it's easier to learn there. It's like encouraging someone to try mtbing, would you send them to tos like trails or Kingdom like trails. After visiting these 2 places and you are still bland about xc skiing then you would only have invested about $150 for you and D to try it.

1. Day trip to New Paltz, Minnewaska does a good job grooming when they have snow. Rock and Snow in town rents, you literally pass it in town on way up the mountain. I believe a day rental is under $25.
https://www.rockandsnow.com/store/

2. Prospect Mountain VT. It's close, 3.5 hrs away, it's easy to find affordable lodging and the snow is usually good. Bennington is close by, so is Manchester, which have decent places to eat...but keep in mind it is VT.
https://prospectmountain.com/
 
About the Kindle being a gateway to interweb/social media timesuck-
How about getting a limited (reader only) kindle device?
Yes, it adds another device to carry around, but would help compartmentalize things.
 
Today, Wednesday, September 5, 2018, is maybe the single worst day I have ever had returning to work after a vacation. I would probably rather have come back and had a colonoscopy administered by a cement truck driver. So I will skip the daily commentary and rewind to something I wrote yesterday morning, before the oral surgeon went medieval on my ass.

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The August, It Recaps

August has come & gone, we have bled into September, and I am late on my monthly assessment as the month flip happened when we were in Canada. Let’s embark on the August rundown now that we have some time to look back on the summer that is fading from memory. And just to be sure that you know we are talking about August, let me say August in this paragraph a few more times so you know it's August.

Exercise total was 51.85 hours, which is a tad off my June & July pace but with intention. I had been keeping a 2 hour/day average but with my diving into this cross plan, that idea goes to the junkyard and I move forward with the 21 week plan to get me to Louisville, a decision which I will probably be questioning until the day I wake up and say to myself, “Yeah, I willingly chose to go to Kentucky. What's wrong with me then?” I am still on track to hit all goals in regards to exercise this year. I am averaging over 50 hours of exercise a month through 8 months.

23 blog posts, 23 average on the year. I have established writing as part of my routine, and have started to think of some non mountain bike-specific writing projects to work on. I am sitting here writing this from the living room of an Airbnb in Vermont (with f'ing flies landing all over me) and this is the second time I have sat down to write something today. I’ll do a daily blog post from the car or at home later today, then maybe write again for a 4th time late tonight. I also attribute some of this to not having my phone distracting me at the moment. As I mentioned in one of my posts on vacation this past week, I need to strongly assess my phone use. I really want to plug it in at night out of arm’s reach from where I sleep. It’s a really bad influence to my having a full life. Update: I have a few strategies for @StayHydrated in mind

Also 23 non-work things in August, 24 on average, and 195 in total. I have started to feel more normal this past month. My boss has put me on the shelf in terms of travel because he thinks I was traveling too much and with the wedding coming up, he knows that life is going to be hectic. So I’ve had a normal work life this past month, which is nice in terms of finding some sort of routine. Some of the things we did this month:
  • Raystown trip with Alex & Mark
  • Six mile solo
  • Gurney lane with the kids
  • Cranks Around the Campfire - Mooch & Stephens
  • Lewis Morris solo
  • Mont-Tremblant trails
  • Taconic with Alex & Mark
  • Dick Mine with D & Utah
  • Mahlon Dick with Utah
  • Ramapo hike to the castle with the kids
  • Black River Roaster in an attempt to work remotely one morning
  • Met up with the caterer for a tasting
  • Canada trip to the cottage
  • The 4H fair
  • 2 podcasts
My weight is actually the same as June. While this is sort of a big fat “meh,” I also have some experience here. I chalk this up to 2 things. First is training, which historically makes it hard to lose weight while you are doing it. I beat the drum of nutrition but that also means taking in calories. If you want to be strong, you need to eat. Eating comes with the caveat that it’s harder to lose weight. Also, training typically means fewer 3 hour rides, which also cuts into 2 things: calorie burning time and non-eating time. The second is that I have been traveling less (for work). The more I travel, the more I seem to be able to control what I eat, just because I am so busy on those trips. But I am generally ok with sticking at this “just over 200” realm for the time being. I dropped weight, now I can normalize, get strong for Kentucky, end that run, then dive back into huge volume, weight loss mode. Maybe I can dip below 200 through the season but it is not really a priority right now.

I read 5 books in August. The Sympathizer, which was an excellent fiction book about the Vietnam War, then 4 eBooks: Infinite, and the 3 Murderbot books (4th comes out in October, YAY!). This was a great month of books and I credit/blame the Kindle for that. This is at odds with my whole “put the phone down more” exploration I want to do. I need to figure out a way to continue to e-read as well as not be on the phone so much, which is sort of like saying I need to consume more cheese and cut out the dairy. 24 books this year, 3 on average. @jmanic did come up with a good suggestion and when I switch to VZW I'll have 2 iPhones since my mom changed her setup and I am currently using her old one. I may convert that into a non-social media device.

Watched 1 movie, John Wick, It was terrible. It would have been better to watch none. It would have been better to have some teeth removed. Or maybe not.

Did 17 things socially. A bunch of these involved @2Julianas & @MurderBort, including parts of 5 days on the Raystown trip, the 3 days at Cranks, and a bonus meet up at Taconic where I crashed again. Almost half of our social outings involved them in some way. We also hung out with a bunch of people at Cranks, had dinner with D’s old coworker & her husband & step-daughter, hung out with @seanrunnette twice to podcast (plus Cranks) as well as @fidodie for 1 of those, went to that fair with the Kubick’s, @UtahJoe a few times on the mountain bike, had breakfast in Montreal with Tony, then saw Oma & Opa to end the month.

508 days non-drinking. I don’t know if this remains “a thing” in 2019. I will keep the tally, I’m sure. But after 500 does it now only become an issue if I break this streak? I am convinced now more than ever that drinking is a horrible idea for me. At the end of December, I may be saying the same thing about Kentucky. But for now, I can say that as I assess my history of 2018 (to this point) that so much of what I/we do is made possible by letting go of the alcohol. I’m sorry to beat this drum so much - I know it's annoying. But it’s been really great in allowing me to just feel so much better all the time now.

I have been thinking of ways to improve this lifestyle tracking for next year, and what next year will bring in terms of this blogging effort. I think that the 1 thing missing from this daily/routine assessment is a sleep count of some sort (oh and hey, maybe f'ing dental care while we're at it?). As I put all the pieces of everything together, it really stands out that I do not track sleep at all, and I probably skimp on this aspect of my life. To be clear, and I know this of course, but sleep is probably more important than ever to get right. I have read before that you sleep less as you get older (though in looking into it more, it appears that part of your brain just starts to rot away - my words) which does not really jive with my current lifestyle in trying to get as much out of life as possible. Anyway, regardless of my brain rotting, I have started to track sleep as well, with my goal being a daily average of 7 hours a day. I'll see how September goes but after 5 days, I am just above 7 hours a night which is where I want to be. Sure, 4 of those days were vacation but...

Writing & sleep ideas noted above. Aside from that, I have nothing of note to add just yet. We've got 1/3 of 2018 left to bring home yet.
 
as someone who has actively supported my dentist's 3 or 4 vacation house...that looks like zero fun.

sleep (and performance) monitoring: check out whoop. I'm a few weeks in and find the data & insights very interesting. at a minimum, knowing something is tracking my sleep has motivated me to try to increase sleep duration and (hopefully) quality.
 
How are you tracking your sleep? I’ve had a Garmin VivoSomethingOrOther for a few years now. It tracks your sleep.
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I have no idea what to do with this.

Regarding the phone at night. I plug it in on the other side of the bedroom. This serves two purposes. First, obviously is the removal of screen time in bed. Second is the alarm. My phone is alarm #2. First alarm is the Garmin VivoSport on my wrist, followed two minutes later by the phone, which requires me to physically get up and out of bed to turn it off. This has helped tremendously with getting up in the morning.
This is easily repeated while traveling also, which I remember was an issue for you earlier this spring/summer.
 
Strength training with weights would do you wonders for cross. It Breaks barriers you can’t get on the bike. I’m talking neurological strength training. It's generally frowned upon in the cycling community but most have never followed a true strength training regime let alone even looked into it.

Deadlifts-squats and pull-ups. Your body type seems like it would respond nicely to it.
 
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Strength training with weights would do you wonders for cross. It Breaks barriers you can’t get on the bike. I’m talking neurological strength training. In generally it’s frowned upon in the cycling community but most have never followed a true strength training regime let alone even looked into it.

Deadlifts-squats and pull-ups. Your body type seems like it would respond nicely to it.

Sage advice, but I am always weary of deadlifts as the risks (namely lower back/leg injury) can outweigh the benefits if form isn't spot on.
 
Sage advice, but I am always weary of deadlifts as the risks (namely lower back/leg injury) can outweigh the benefits if form isn't spot on.

Absolutely, form over dysfunction.

The regimen I have been doing for just under a year, there is absolutely no muscle burn and no weight gain from adding muscle( i've lost weight and gotten stronger). It really has made a huge difference on the bike . Cycling is static in that you're only pushing your current weight, bike, gear and whatever resistance.

BUT we are talking weights on a cycling forum so it's that popular of a topic.
 
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sleep (and performance) monitoring: check out whoop.
JPows was spamming my Insta a few weeks ago with this thing. Thus far do you feel that it's worth the price tag? Will be interested to hear what you think after multiple months of use, too - pls report back.

How are you tracking your sleep? I’ve had a Garmin VivoSomethingOrOther for a few years now. It tracks your sleep.
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I have no idea what to do with this.

Regarding the phone at night. I plug it in on the other side of the bedroom. This serves two purposes. First, obviously is the removal of screen time in bed. Second is the alarm. My phone is alarm #2. First alarm is the Garmin VivoSport on my wrist, followed two minutes later by the phone, which requires me to physically get up and out of bed to turn it off. This has helped tremendously with getting up in the morning.
This is easily repeated while traveling also, which I remember was an issue for you earlier this spring/summer.
HOW T F DO YOU GET 9 HOURS A NIGHT?
 
JPows was spamming my Insta a few weeks ago with this thing. Thus far do you feel that it's worth the price tag? Will be interested to hear what you think after multiple months of use, too - pls report back.

I will. this is my first activity and sleep tracker. so far, I'm digging the data but too soon to make a conclusions.
 
I don't feel like talking about how much my jaw hurts today. I will provide this graph which represents the 8 hour med cycle that the oral surgeon has put me on. The start of this is when I actually take the medication. And yes, it hurts so much at the end I can travel backwards in time:

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Beyond that, you can figure out how the day goes. Currently I am about under the K in OK. Sliding to the right though.

<TOPIC SHIFT: @StayHydrated >

I long ago deleted the Facebook app but I would find myself going back via Safari. I have since been inadvertently logged out and never bothered to log back in. I occasionally go on the laptop but I mostly use Facebook for the messenger app. The one thing you hit on is the WSJ, for me it's the NYT. While we like to pretend that these are noble wastes of time, I think at the end of the day they are still wastes of time, just not as noble so much as ignoble, like my gas. I have not deleted my NYT app but I also have not opened it in a long time.

Great expression: "sublimate into a gas of memes" - can I steal that?

I think one thing you can do is to scrap notifications. I read this recommendation a while ago and I have started to follow it. As an example, I removed the notifications from my Discord app and I get more done. I check it when I have some time but I don't let it control my attention span. I am close to doing the same for text messages but I have not done it yet. Same with Hangouts. But all my apps have been tuned out so they can't blister me with meaningless nonsense all day. I am happier because of it.

Why do we need so many notifications?

<TOPIC SHIFT: @pooriggy >

Good stuff on the XC ski suggestions. Though don't be surprised if we just pull the trigger. I am pretty sure I'll like it and D is on board. If we wait for the perfect conditions and perfect weekend to go up there, it may take forever or not happen. For sure we spend enough time in snowy areas, and just pulling the trigger is a likely scenario. As we drove out of Vermont 2 days ago (seems like 12) I ask myself why we don't spend more time up there. So I'd be inclined to just go for it, and make it work.

Having said that, I have noted the links and will keep it in mind as an option.

And no I did not listen to that podcast yet.

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As we have texted back and forth, none of this is new but I will tag you anyway. I kind of like the iPhone for reading even if it is small. While an e-reader would make the need for glasses less, I have no problems with the iPhone currently. And glasses make me look majestic (I was going to take a selfie with my glasses crooked but with my jaw swollen I look like a deranged Fred Flintstone). I'm probably going to use this second iPhone for my v1 of the non-social media piece of electronics. I'll need a new iTunes account for it. But even with that, I'll still have Safari so I can't even insulate myself from myself.

We do have D's old iPad I could use for bedtime, which would actually cover most of the issues here as the screen time tends to kill sleep. Ok let me see if I can get it to work.

Ok it's dead. I'll try to get it loaded later.

Update: Ok, got it to work. I am flat out too lazy to log out of her account on the Kindle (who knew she even had one?) and on my non-work laptop I am logged in as her so I can watch Amazon Prime on it. So I'm just going to try this out with a new book on the old iPad. Book of choice is Punch Escrow, recommended by @MurderBort. At $1.99 for the eBook, it's hard to beat.

Ok I read 1 page. It's a start. Will report back at some point when I am not plunging into the red.

<TOPIC SHIFT: @taylor185 >

I used to use Sleep Cycle, but this is another item tethering the phone to my person when it's time to sleep. So it necessitates my putting the phone actually *on* the bed. I pretty much use the sundial method of looking at the clock, saying, "Ok it's time to go to bed, if i wake up at 6:20 I'll get 7 hours of sleep." Then I got to bed. I did this last night but at 5:30, see the red part of the graph above. It was way shorter last night. My sleep sucked last night.

I should really just get into the habit of going to bed at 11, and waking up at 6, and this is the end of it. But we as humans pretty much sacrifice sleep first when it's time for something to give. I also have a bad habit of trying to submit this post late enough that it is new in the morning. Maybe I should just submit it in the morning instead. Or just at night whenever. I like consistency but it's a dumb reason to stay awake.

If our dentists are the same person, he probably owns an entire resort now.

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I do like the watch tracking which would sort of solve the phone tethering issue. But it would mean buying an iWatch (or whatever) and I don't really have any desire for a smart watch. I kinda want an old school dumb watch but not enough to actually look for one. Maybe I'll be like Flava Flav and put a sundial around my neck.

That's a lot of light sleep. I mean it's a lot of sleep but it doesn't look like very good sleep. But IDK what I'm talking about.

<TOPIC SHIFT: @Norm >

Dear me, your post sucked tonight.
Hey me, eat me, I don't feel good. I'm sliding down the erratica of the graph as we speak.
At least I didn't bow down and take the codeine-tylenol.
You should have.
Probably

I am almost surely out for Whirlybird. I was supposed to mock race tomorrow but I just stopped mouth bleeding like 5 hours ago so that's not realistic. I am eating mashed potatoes and sour cream for dinner tonight. My jaw is noticeably swollen still. I need to let my body rest some before I go back out there. I am a little disappointed but I am pretty sure it would be a bad showing and might actually border on really stupid. If I wake up Saturday and feel 100%, I'll reassess. But for now, I am out.

Did not even consider getting on the bike today. Just not happening.

Ok I will share ONE thing from the chair yesterday. After 2 or 3 "final" x-rays, the oral surgeon says to the assistant, "Man, it looks like the root is FUSED to the jawbone."

Alrighty then, time for the nighttime medication. And hopefully sleep.
 
HOW T F DO YOU GET 9 HOURS A NIGHT?
That's not normal for me... Usual week night is about 6 hours. As @Norm notes, I sleep like shit.

<TOPIC NON SHIFT: @MadisonDan >

I do like the watch tracking which would sort of solve the phone tethering issue. But it would mean buying an iWatch (or whatever) and I don't really have any desire for a smart watch. I kinda want an old school dumb watch but not enough to actually look for one. Maybe I'll be like Flava Flav and put a sundial around my neck.

That's a lot of light sleep. I mean it's a lot of sleep but it doesn't look like very good sleep. But IDK what I'm talking about.

The Garmin activity trackers are pretty basic, and not expensive, relative to an iWatch. It sync's right to GarminConnect. I'm all in on the Apple ecosphere or whatever you call it, but I think the watch is overkill.


Hope your face starts to feel better.
 
Vermont - was just up there, and was definitely thinking I could live like a Dane there. when driving back to NJ, I thought I could feel the stress return, good to know it’s just the crappy road surfaces.

Phones- a couple of years ago I took my work email off my phone for the season, it was incredible!

XC skiing- the cost of entry is really low, in comparison to downhill. A good setup will run around $400 and trail fees are nominal as well.
 
I think one thing you can do is to scrap notifications. I read this recommendation a while ago and I have started to follow it. As an example, I removed the notifications from my Discord app and I get more done. I check it when I have some time but I don't let it control my attention span. I am close to doing the same for text messages but I have not done it yet. Same with Hangouts. But all my apps have been tuned out so they can't blister me with meaningless nonsense all day. I am happier because of it.

Why do we need so many notifications?

We don't need the notifications. I completely forgot that this should be my #1 advise for cutting the leash. I keep my phone on Do Not Disturb mode all day. I've turned off almost all notifications from any social media apps. Those small notifications are an absolute time killer as they break the mental flow. This includes phone calls. I have plenty of people I work with that are phone people that I know I'm pissing off by never answering my phone, but it's much more productive to actually block off time for them.

The most possible worst offender to this is the Garmin that displays text messages. The last thing I need while enjoying a ride is a text from my mother.
 
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